Today is supposed to be the day of our monthly link up: This Is How We Do It. And we were going to talk about our tips and tricks to cleaning your house. But, well, this last month has been a little busy. And if you know me, you know I don’t do busy. I don’t appreciate busy. So my house is not clean. My blog has not been frequently updated with new posts. And this is life sometimes. And so this month, we are calling GRACE!
So, there is no link up today. But send me your posts on cleaning and I would love to add them to this post! We so appreciate you and this community and all the GRACE!
And bonus, here are a few of my house cleaning tips and tricks:
We live in a fairly large house, so cleaning it completely every week is out of the question. Instead I embrace the idea of cleaning the most used rooms frequently, and keeping the others tidy. This means we feel less overwhelmed and the house is less cluttered. The kitchen gets the counters cleaned and the floors swept daily. The kids and I pick up the family room and the play room at the end of each day. The less used spaces (or less used by adults) get cleaned and tidied less. The basement is a play space so it is covered in train tracks and legos. And honestly, it stays this way for months at a time. The bedrooms get tidied at the end of each day, but only to the level the person living in that room desires. So my older children have “tidy” rooms by their standards but certainly not by mine. We are teaching them responsibility in their space and they are slowly learning that mess means things are more easy to misplace. Especially Legos.
I choose one thing to “deep clean” every few weeks. My deep cleaning list usually rotates every quarter (or every season). This perfectly aligns with adding seasonal decor and changing out the kids clothes for the next season/size. My deep cleaning list isn’t long and honestly, doesn’t exist. It’s just items that live in my head and get accomplished as I see the need. This leaves me without the stress and overwhelming feeling of constantly deep cleaning. Or being left in the middle of deep cleaning everything but without fully finishing any of it. I write the current item on my calendar. Some weeks it gets done, and others it gets pushed back to the following week. Right now it’s the blinds. Man Child had a project for school to count all the windows in the house. I think the number was in the 50s. And each window has a set of blinds on them. (Cringe)
I clean when my littles are around. I know. That makes almost no sense. But I value my quiet times, so I refuse to use the times that fill me up to clean. This also gives my littles the chance to help out and learn what it means to live in community. Granted, it’s not super helpful to have a 2 year old sweeping with you, but it’s life. And grace. Because let’s be real, I clean because I am thankful for my home and treasure the people that live in it. Not because I love to clean.
As I mentioned earlier, keeping the house clean and tidy is a family job. My husband helps out with dishes if I’ve been out or overwhelmed and haven’t been able to get to them. Man Child cleans his bathroom. Each child is responsible for their own room (except Baby Boy). Man Child helps sweep after meals and Goose wipes the kitchen table and chairs down. We are blessed by our home and so very thankful for it so we all take responsibility to keep it clean and tidy.
Oh and we constantly wipe the refrigerator down. Because stainless steel just means fingerprints, hand-prints, and sometimes face-prints.
Here are a few other house cleaning tips and tricks from some of my favorites:
The Boutelle Family: This Is How We Do It
The Popp Ohana: Cleaning Checklist
The Nested Nomad: 3 Small & Sustainable Spring Cleaning Habits
Still Playing House: This Is How We Do It
This is just a glimpse at our house cleaning tips and tricks mixed with a whole lot of grace. What are your house cleaning tips? Would love to hear them in the comments!
Sounds to me like we have the same cleaning style! It works if you ask me 🙂 I don’t do busy either lol.
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Ha! I totally agree, Bethany!
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We have been cleaning the house all morning! And Jeremiah “helped”.. it was precious but challenging. How funny that you would post this today right in the midst of our deep cleaning.
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So funny! Great minds think alike! Hope your foot is doing okay!
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Love your cleaning style! I laughed out loud at the “sometimes face-prints” comment about the fridge. So true!
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Right!? Why? Why do we have to smoosh our face into things? Really.
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The stainless steel drives me crazy!! It is always covered in fingerprints and other prints at my house as well 🙂
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Ha! So glad we aren’t alone! I vowed that as soon as this one dies we will buy the fingerprint-less ones!
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Thank you for sharing your tips! I’m always looking for ways to make the cleaning process run smoother. It’s kind of difficult with 4 kids!
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Oh I am right there with you, Stefanie! It’s insane the mess 4 kids can make! For us it’s mainly while eating.
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We spent the weekend cleaning the house and it was such a relaxing and refreshing feeling once it was all done. Love it!
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It is, isn’t it! I don’t get that feeling super often, but when I do, it’s wonderful! For five minutes…then somehow the house is destroyed again. 😉
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Totally with you on tidy = feels less overwhleming! Me too. I try to at least pick things up, even if I don’t clean as much/often as I’d like. 🙂
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I thought I already posted on this, but I guess I didn’t 😦 Anyways, thanks so much for sharing this! I don’t have kiddos right now, but I love your point about cleaning around them and not giving up your quiet time. It’s worth fighting for. I also love how you make it a family event. That’s awesome!
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Thank you, Kelsie! I am so glad I’m not alone in my love for quiet time!
(And never apologize for not commenting!)
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Thanks for sharing your great tips..now that I have the empty nest :(, I think its time for a smaller house, so there is less to clean! Have a great week!
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Oh totally, Valerie! I dream about that day (the smaller house, not the empty nest part. Though maybe the silence part.) 😉
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I’m a horrible cleaner! Haha. I tend to start cleaning when everything starts piling up!
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Ha! I do that too sometimes. Like right now with laundry.
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I like your idea of cleaning when the kids are around – I only have one child, a 7.5 month old, so I rarely get alone time. When I do, I spend it cleaning – what a silly idea! Thanks for including those lists as well.
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Oh yes, that infant stage really doesn’t give much alone time! And when you do have it there is so much better things to do! (Like nap!) 😉
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I’m with you! I give my two year old the duster and he does that while my husband and I clean (as fast as possible).
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Haha! Yes, always as fast as possible!
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It is so great to have some help!
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Ha! Right!? Even if they are t always super helpful. 💛
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For me the hardest part is having the time. If I had the time to clean, I would deep clean every day! I love cleaning. I’m slightly OCD about it because I hate clutter!
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Oh me too! I used to deep clean all the time. But now, that just isn’t going to happen. So I try to do small things so it stays tidy at least.
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I like that you clean with your kids around, so they can see by your example. I feel like my house can always be cleaner and tidier but I’m doing the best I can! I at least try to tidy-up when I can, it makes me feel less stressed. Great tips!
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Oh yes, it can always be cleaner and tidier. But…I try to remember that there are more important things than a super clean house.
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LOVE that you clean with the kids present! I also do the same thing! It’s so important for them to see us working hard and taking care of the things we own!
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Yes! It’s so important that they see what it means to care for our things.
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I love how you include the kids in the cleaning activity already cultivating good habits and having fun with them. You are a great mom Ashley!
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Thank you, Gema! 💛
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Lol I need a list and to stick to it, otherwise nothing will get done! That’s just me I guess. No happy medium 🙂 Just out of curiousity (this is your first post I read) are Man Child and Goose names for your family members?
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Ha! Yes, I love lists, too. But I get stressed out by them too. So I try to keep them as flexible as possible. 😉
And yup! ManChild is my 7yo, Goose is my 5yo daughter, BoyChild is my 4yo, and Baby Boy my 2yo. Thanks for stopping by!
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Yes! “let’s be real, I clean because I am thankful for my home and treasure the people that live in it. Not because I love to clean.”
I am a mom of two tots ages 2&3 and yes, it is almost impossible to clean with them (even when they are cleaning. lol) . And yes, cleaning the whole house in completely unheard of. We just clean the most used rooms as well.
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Haha! Yeah, my 2 and (was) 3 year old we’re not helpful at all! I tried to give them an activity not by me or not doing what I was doing and every so often that helped. Good luck!
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At first, when I read “Cleaning the House with Kids”, I laughed… but then I really enjoyed your post, so thank you! I agree with you that my alone and quiet time is sacred, I shouldn’t be spending it all cleaning up after other people!
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Ha! Well thank you, Justine!
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I clean with my kids around too. Its usually the time when they try to sit quietly and read a book.
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Yes! That’s a great time to get things done!
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I love your laid back approach. I’m not a neat freak by any means, so this is much more sustainable for me. Also, I completely agree, quiet time is not for boring chores! Plus my toddler loves to help out 🙂
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Thank you, Nina! I’m so glad you have a “helper” too! 😉
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I am often glad that our apartment isn’t any larger, because cleaning already takes plenty of time! The whole house is tile, so I sweep and mop, realistically, twice a week, though I should be doing it three times a week. Cooking and kitchen wipe-down every day…we’ve only lived her two months so I haven’t even gone back in and cleaned the cupboards after the initial move-in cleaning, that should probaly be done before too much longer…
My husband usually cleans the bathrooms, because bleach gives me a pounding headache, and he (probably do to a medical background) feels better knowing that the bathrooms are regularly cleaned with bleach. Mold and mildew are tough to combat in this climate, so bleach is probably a good thing.
There’s only two of us, so I do a load of laundry and hang it up to dry about every other day. figuring out how to hang-dry tablecloths and sheets inside a 1000 sq. ft. apartment can be a little tricky, since they really have to be spread out well since it’s so humid they won’t dry otherwise…haha! Just means our house looks a little funny with sheets draped all over the chairs for a little while.
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Wow! I’m exhausted just reading this! You are amazing, and definitely don’t need to be cleaning anymore than you are! I hate mopping and cleaning the inside of cabinets so those don’t happen until necessary. Which is almost never. 😉 I love that you and your husband split up the chores!
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